So I slaved through that crazy, long test and finally figured out my strengths. I was actually pretty surprised to see that they match my idea of myself pretty well and described my characteristics in ways I've never heard or thought of before. Here they are:
Belief
Adaptability
Command
Competition
Individualization
Belief was the first one that caught my eye, ironically being the first one on the list as well. This is a huge aspect of my life because my belief system is what guides my actions and decisions on a day to day basis. One quote that I thought was most accurate of me from the strengths quest website was "[beliefs] provide you with direction, guiding you through the temptations and distractions of life toward a consistent set of priorities."
Adaptability was a part of me I really considered a strength. However, after reading about it, it did make sense. An example in my life of adaptability was during my senior year. Up until my Senior year I was positive I wanted to go to a UC, such as UCLA. But, when my senior year came around and it was time to college hunt I was open to whatever college stood out to me, wherever I felt called to go, and for me that was APU.
Command is another strength I was amused to see on my results. I think it is all to true being that is basically being confrontational, but in a positive aspect. If someone does something I disagree with and tries to justify it I will be the first to let them know how I feel. I rarely feel afraid of confrontation, even when I should be. Such as with adults or people positions of authority. One quote from the description that I love was "you know that confrontation is the first step toward resolution". I hate it when people tip-toe around how they really feel about certain subjects just so the group doesn't have to feel uncomfortable.
Competition "is rooted in comparison. When you look at the world, you are instinctively aware of other people's performance." This is a dead-on description of me. I don't like to admit it a lot of the time but it is true. This is just one sentence, but the whole description given on strengths quest is exactly true as well. There is competition rooted in almost everything I do.
Individualization is one of the cooler strengths I think I have. I can usually tell most about a person's character after a few minutes a talking or getting to know them. Also, I can almost always tell how someone will react to certain things in life, such as jokes, controversial issues, etc.
Bellow is the strengthsquest description of each of my strengths, which you can read if you really feel the need. Enjoy
Belief
If you possess a strong Belief theme, you have certain core values that are enduring. These values vary from one person to another, but ordinarily your Belief theme causes you to be family-oriented, altruistic, even spiritual, and to value responsibility and high ethics-both in yourself and others. These core values affect your behavior in many ways. They give your life meaning and satisfaction; in your view, success is more than money and prestige. They provide you with direction, guiding you through the temptations and distractions of life toward a consistent set of priorities. This consistency is the foundation for all your relationships. Your friends call you dependable. "I know where you stand," they say. Your Belief makes you easy to trust. It also demands that you find work that meshes with your values. Your work must be meaningful; it must matter to you. And guided by your Belief theme it will matter only if it gives you a chance to live out your values.
Adaptability
You live in the moment. You don't see the future as a fixed destination. Instead, you see it as a place that you create out of the choices that you make right now. And so you discover your future one choice at a time. This doesn't mean that you don't have plans. You probably do. But this theme of Adaptability does enable you to respond willingly to the demands of the moment even if they pull you away from your plans. Unlike some, you don't resent sudden requests or unforeseen detours. You expect them. They are inevitable. Indeed, on some level you actually look forward to them. You are, at heart, a very flexible person who can stay productive when the demands of work are pulling you in many different directions at once.
Command
Command leads you to take charge. Unlike some people, you feel no discomfort with imposing your views on others. On the contrary, once your opinion is formed, you need to share it with others. Once your goal is set, you feel restless until you have aligned others with you. You are not frightened by confrontation; rather, you know that confrontation is the first step toward resolution. Whereas others may avoid facing up to life's unpleasantness, you feel compelled to present the facts or the truth, no matter how unpleasant it may be. You need things to be clear between people and challenge them to be clear-eyed and honest. You push them to take risks. You may even intimidate them. And while some may resent this, labeling you opinionated, they often willingly hand you the reins. People are drawn toward those who take a stance and ask them to move in a certain direction. Therefore, people will be drawn to you. You have presence. You have Command.
Competition
Competition is rooted in comparison. When you look at the world, you are instinctively aware of other people's performance. Their performance is the ultimate yardstick. No matter how hard you tried, no matter how worthy your intentions, if you reached your goal but did not outperform your peers, the achievement feels hollow. Like all competitors, you need other people. You need to compare. If you can compare, you can compete, and if you can compete, you can win. And when you win, there is no feeling quite like it. You like measurement because it facilitates comparisons. You like other competitors because they invigorate you. You like contests because they must produce a winner. You particularly like contests where you know you have the inside track to be the winner. Although you are gracious to your fellow competitors and even stoic in defeat, you don't compete for the fun of competing. You compete to win. Over time you will come to avoid contests where winning seems unlikely.
Individualization
Your Individualization theme leads you to be intrigued by the unique qualities of each person. You are impatient with generalizations or "types" because you don't want to obscure what is special and distinct about each person. Instead, you focus on the differences between individuals. You instinctively observe each person's style, each person's motivation, how each thinks, and how each builds relationships. You hear the one-of-a-kind stories in each person's life. This theme explains why you pick your friends just the right birthday gift, why you know that one person prefers praise in public and another detests it, and why you tailor your teaching style to accommodate one person's need to be shown and another's desire to "figure it out as I go." Because you are such a keen observer of other people's strengths, you can draw out the best in each person. This Individualization theme also helps you build productive teams. While some search around for the perfect team "structure" or "process," you know instinctively that the secret to great teams is casting by individual strengths so that everyone can do a lot of what they do well.
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Colton definately has all of these strengths. It was no surprise to see that belief was one of his top strenghts. Ever since I've known him, I haven't had any doubts as to what his beliefs are. I have seen him demonstrate all of these strengths since I've known him.
Colt, you for sure have all these qualities/strengths. Even though I've only known you for a short time, I can see how these strengths are relevant to you and part of who you are.
Colton, I agree with the fact that your faith/beliefs are a foundational core of who you are. You have chosen Jesus Christ as not only your Saviour but also your Lord, and you attempt to live out a life which honors him. This does not mean you live a spotless life, but you are attempting to honor God in your daily life, just like all Christians should. You are definitely competitive and commanding. Which can be strong/overpowering characteristics if not reigned in appropriately. However, you seek a good balance between those characteristics and those of kindness and grace. I hope that you will use yourself as your main "comparison", checking your progress today, against where you were yesterday. Finally, your ability to adapt to both people and situations, as well as to see people as unique individuals is what make those who are close to you feel so special. You are able to make others feel appreciated and welcomed for who they are, not who you expect them to be. This is unique gift, which many others do not possess.
colt the bolt! haha these really seem like your strengths! This test is so cool because it really has picked out the strengths that make you, you!
First of all, belief being your number one is just something to be proud of. It's great that you have a firm set of values and are no doubt a strong man of God. Also like your example for adaptability, you are willing to go anywhere God calls you to, which is outstanding. Command and competition are both those leadership qualities I seemed to have missed out on, haha. I really do see those in you for the weeks we've known each other. You are just a strong person in general and I almost can't wait to see it develop even more. Lastly, your individualization strength is something that makes you such a great person, being able to see a person for who they are, and being able to understand people play a key role in developing friendships. Jeez Colton, you are such a cool guy. God bless.
Colton, Colton... did you know there's city called Colton? Sha, that's a fact. Live there someday. Please.
Anywayyyy. The thing that jumped out at me the most while reading about your strengths was the fact that they all have to do with... well, strength. I'm talking about the personal, inner strength that comes with having a good grasp on what you believe and who you are. You have a crazy strong personality and it causes you to hold so tight to your opinions. I haven't really gotten to know you well enough to be able to say this for sure, but the combination of all of your different strengths seem like they make for a very trustworthy and dependable person, one who's beliefs never falter or change and who can be trusted to always do what he believes is right.
That being said, let's hang out more some time!
Colton~
I think that your strengths are pretty accurate...you definitly have your beilefs, and are very well at adaptibility. I can definitly see you taking control of situations, and not liking to loose. I think individualization is a pretty wonderful quality you have, mostly because i can take jokes. But these all seem to be your strengths, since i noticed most of them within the first few hours of meeting you! :)
COLTON! say it like stephen did in the message!
Your strengths are perfect for you and for your role in ROTC i think that all of these will benefit you greatly there. The fact that belief is numero uno is awesome. I can definitely tell that command is one of your strengths because you always seem to get our group going and take charge!
Colton, You def has these strengths. Its funny cause 4 of these 5 strengths match me so thats pretty cool. I dont know you that well but im pretty sure that you have these qualities.
Haha colton this is so perfect. I never knew you wanted to go to UCLA....You do know that was my dream school for my whole life, right? yeah. Anyway, like i said on Jonathan's...Such a man! and i loooove it :)
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